One of the biggest lies that I personally have experienced from the enemy is the lie that God is withholding good things from me. I think it's somewhere all of us have been.
Feeling single and alone...
Waiting for a job...
After a doctor's report...
Being denied a scholarship...
Trying to start a family...
Whatever the situation, we have all had those moments when we just want to scream, "Hello? I thought You were a good God that had good things to give me!"
Have you noticed that God doesn't give us everything we want?
That sometimes He asks us to wait, or says "no"?
There's always a temptation to see God as a gum-ball machine that will give us the candy we want when we put in a few prayers and cross our fingers. And then it continues, when we feel confused/elated that God did/didn't answer their prayers like we wanted (like the kid that is frustrated/excited by the gum-ball he gets when he puts in a quarter).
Instantly, the enemy is at hand to whisper subtly "He doesn't actually want to give you what you want."
Even worse, sometimes that whisper speaks, "He's withholding good things from you; how dare he?"
THE ORIGINAL SIN...
We've heard the story of the original sin in Genesis 3 many times... But, if you notice, this lie - that God is a withholding God - is exactly the lie that got Eve in trouble:
"He said to the woman, 'Did God actually say, 'You shall not eat of any tree in the garden'?
And the woman said to the serpent, 'We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden,
but God said, 'You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.''
But the serpent said to the woman, 'You will not surely die.
For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil." Genesis 3:1-4
First the serpent tempts her to doubt what God actually said, but then he says "God knows that the fruit is actually good; He's just keeping it from you." That is when Eve considers the fruit, and ultimately takes it and eats it and gives it to her husband.
THE MODERN ARGUMENT
I have both experienced this lie in my own life, and see it in many others as well. Most commonly:
"God is keeping a boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse from you."
"God didn't give you that job."
"God withheld that scholarship."
"God will never give you children."
But when we begin to believe that there are good things that God is actually keeping from us, the enemy comes in with his biggest punch:
"Is He really a good God who loves His children if He is withholding so many good things from you?"
WHY DO WE BELIEVE IT?
I am finding that there are a few different things that are happening when we start believing these lies:
1) We aren't spending time with God
Spending time with God daily is crucial to remind us of who He is and who we are to Him. It isn't until we've started forgetting these truths that the enemy can step in in any capacity (read: Isaiah 40:10-41:20 - my favorite verses to be reminded of these truths!)
2) We are too focused on our own plans
Don't have a boyfriend yet? Were you already planning on being married? Well, looks like God had different plans. But "different" does not mean "bad"! In fact, God's plan are always always always way better than ours!
"For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD." Isa 55:8
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
3) We are not being thankful
I love being around people who have had so much taken away from them, and yet they're still joyful. It's so humbling to me! Because I get bent out of shape when Starbucks messes up on my latte... instead of being thankful that I have money to buy such a luxury, and a car to take me there on the way to wherever I'm going.
When I am thankful, I am seeing how many fruits God has given to me, and the one that He has said "no" to doesn't even matter so much.
Would Eve have eaten the fruit...
...if she was standing next to Jesus, being reminded of how much He loved her?
...if she remembered that God always has her best interest, even when His plans look weird?
...if she had taken a minute to realize how much God had given her, instead of focusing on what He hadn't?
It really is no accident that Paul equates faith to a shield:
"In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one." Ephesians 6:16
And what is faith? what is this shield?
Simply knowing who our God is, and holding up that knowledge, that belief, no matter how many flaming darts are firing in your direction.
Sometimes it will feel like you are gripping this shield, hiding behind it as you huddle underneath of it, but guess what? It's a shield that never fails.
So, stand strong, my sweet readers.
Remember that, in everything, God has your best interest.
He is a good Father, one who loves His children and wants to give them the best, but is also interested in building our shield of faith to such a broad diameter that we can go charging into battle without the slightest bit of fear.
And remember that, even when it feels like God is withholding good things from you, the enemy never has a better version. It may be cheaper, easier, and more available, but it is never, ever better.