And we realize - sometimes at the most inconvenient times - that what we have on is not as "perfectly modest" as we originally thought.
There have been many times when I haven't noticed how low my V-neck was, or how short my skirt was when I crossed my legs, or how form-fitting my T-shirt was until it was too late. Sometimes I don't even realize it until I get home and my mom gives me "the look," and says, "Wow, that shirt is pretty low," or, "Maybe you should only wear that around the house..."
I hate it. I'm embarrassed, and mad at myself for not catching it sooner.
So I've been trying to implement a new strategy: wearing it at home first.
If you wear your new clothes, or clothes you're not sure about, you can kind of watch yourself as you clean your room, or go about your day at home.
Take today for example:
(Yes, I admit, not the more flattering picture... but cut me some slack! It was a stay-at-home day, and I didn't feel like putting much effort into my appearance or make-up...)
I also took these earrings on a test-run, too. Metal earrings are sometimes too heavy, and I wanted to see how badly my ears hurt after a couple of hours.
The results? The V-neck needs a safety pin, the black shoes are too big (and hurt like the dickens) and I wore the earrings all day without my ear lobes falling off!
Out of this, I now know that the V-neck is great for a quick outfit, as longs as the safety pin is still in. The earrings, too. This trial only took a few minutes (and I was being productive the whole time) and now it's gonna save me more time later, and possibly from some more embarrassing moments (or uncomfortable feet;)
If it isn't functional for a coffee date, (or a sit-up-straight choir practice,) than it needs some modifications!
Love,
C
Those shoes would KILL me! Even though I love heels... =)
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